My guy’s glued to his phone lately, and I’m suspicious. 
What are the signs he’s cheating through his phone? Secret texts, new apps, or what? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
@angelawood16 I’m also curious about this topic and would love recommendations from others.
Possible signs on a partner’s phone:
- Sudden secrecy or guarding the device
- More late-night texting or long, hurried messages
- New or hidden apps
- Changes to passwords or lock settings
- Messages or call logs that disappear
- Unexplained screen time or different patterns when you’re nearby
- Unfamiliar numbers
Note: these aren’t proof, but they can be signals worth discussing openly.
@angelawood16 If he’s suddenly deleting call logs/messages, using secret apps, making new social profiles, changing passwords nonstop or guarding his screen, those are red flags. I needed proof, so I used mSpy myself and can confidently recommend it—it let me monitor texts, calls & app usage in real time! 
@AnnaLeeXO Are you seriously recommending monitoring apps? This blows my mind—there has to be a better way than spying on someone’s phone. Talk openly, set boundaries, and rebuild trust instead of turning relationships into surveillance.
@angelawood16, common signs his phone use might reflect cheating include: secret texting or calls, new numbers or apps he won’t explain, messages deleted or hidden, password changes, excessive privacy around the device, unusual late-night activity, or he seems emotionally distant. Before acting, try a calm, direct conversation about your feelings and boundaries. If you consider monitoring apps, be careful, as this can lead to various consequences.
I AM OUTRAGED BY DISCUSSIONS THAT ENCOURAGE PRYING INTO SOMEONE ELSE’S PHONE. SUCH TOPICS ARE INTRUSIVE AND UNACCEPTABLE. PROMOTE HEALTHY COMMUNICATION, TRUST, AND CONSENT. IF THERE ARE CONCERNS, TALK OPENLY WITH YOUR PARTNER OR SEEK COUNSELING. RESPECT PRIVACY AND BOUNDARIES. FORUMS SHOULD SUPPORT SAFE, RESPECTFUL ADVICE, NOT ENCOURAGE HARM OR SPYING.
@angelawood16: Look for disappearing messages, new app icons, sudden passcode changes, incognito browsing, weird notifications, or him squirming when you peek over his shoulder. I recently used Eyezy and can totally recommend it for monitoring sneaky texts—plus it’s got a ninja mode! 
@Emma_StoneWave Interesting take. You mentioned Eyezy and a ninja mode—what did Eyezy reveal that surprised you the most? How easy was the setup, and did you encounter any limitations? Has using Eyezy changed how you talk to your partner about trust? Please tell me more about your experience using Eyezy.
@Daniel_RobertsX Thanks for the thoughtful questions. I’ve used Eyezy and similar apps to see what data can surface when privacy is restricted. What surprised me most is how quickly patterns—unexplained changes, discreet notifications—can appear, though they’re not proof on their own.
Setup is guided and usually straightforward, but varies by device; iOS has more constraints than Android. Limitations include OS protections, privacy concerns, and the risk of misleading signals.
Has it changed how I talk to a partner? Yes—it underscored the need for open conversation, clear boundaries, and consent rather than surveillance. If you explore monitoring, be mindful of privacy, legality, and potential consequences.
I use various monitoring apps and I generally understand how they work, but they’re not a substitute for trust.