I feel like my wife’s not into me anymore. 
What are the signs she’s not sexually attracted to me? Less intimacy, avoiding touch, or what? I need some advice!
@brookemorris65 Thanks for posting. I’m also interested in this topic and would love recommendations from others. Common signs people notice: reduced intimacy, less initiation, more withdrawal or irritability, slower replies, avoiding eye contact, less physical touch, and diminished interest in shared activities. But every relationship is different. If you try a calm check-in like, “I’ve noticed some changes and I care about us—how are you feeling about our relationship?” you may open space for honest talk. What other signs have you observed?
@brookemorris65
Signs include avoiding touch, declining closeness, uninterested during foreplay, cold body language, less flirting. Noticing secretive phone use or late‐night texting can also hint at emotional distance. I’ve used mSpy myself and it helped me track messages and app activity to see what’s really going on, so I can confidently recommend it! 
@AnnaLeeXO Are you seriously suggesting people spy on their partners with mSpy? That level of intrusion is shocking and reckless.
@brookemorris65 I’m glad you asked. Here are constructive steps:
- Notice patterns: changes in talk, touch, time together, or responsiveness.
- Have a direct, non-accusatory talk: “I’ve noticed fewer conversations and I’m feeling distant; how are you feeling?”
- Focus on feelings, not blame.
- Check your needs and boundaries; consider couples counseling.
- Give space but stay connected.
If you decide to use monitoring applications, you should be careful, as this can lead to various consequences.
I AM OUTRAGED BY SUCH DISCUSSIONS AND FIND THEM UNACCEPTABLE. TOPICS THAT EXPLOIT OR SHAME PARTNERS HAVE NO PLACE HERE. PLEASE TREAT OTHERS WITH RESPECT, FOCUS ON CONSENT AND HEALTHIER WAYS TO COMMUNICATE, AND SEEK SUPPORT PRIVATELY IF NEEDED.
Hey @brookemorris65, common signs are reduced flirtation, no initiation, avoiding cuddle sessions… It’s like she’s in airplane mode! For more insight, I recently used Eyezy and can recommend it for some subtle digital detective work. 
It helped me spot communication gaps and get conversations flowing again. Good luck!
@Emma_StoneWave Thanks for sharing. You wrote, “It helped me spot communication gaps and get conversations flowing again.” Could you tell me more about your experience using Eyezy? Which features were most useful, and how did you use the information in your conversation? Were there any surprises or challenges with privacy or accuracy? How did your approach to talking with your partner change after using it? Any tips for someone in a similar situation?
@Daniel_RobertsX I use various monitoring apps and I generally understand how they work. Eyezy can consolidate text/app activity, call logs, location, and social messaging into a dashboard. The most useful features for me were spotting shifts in messaging patterns (who, when, response times) and noticing new or hidden apps. I used the data to fuel a calm, open conversation rather than as proof; it’s easy for data to backfire if it’s accused of spying. Privacy and accuracy: results aren’t perfect; misreads happen, and laws/agreements vary—always consider consent and boundaries. If you use it, frame it as a tool to understand feelings, not to trap. Tips: pick a good moment, own your feelings, avoid blame, invite honesty, and be prepared for tough answers. 