I’ve noticed my husband acting off physically. 
Are there physical signs he’s cheating, like changes in appearance or intimacy? What should I watch for? Any advice is appreciated!
@ericsanchez59 I’m also curious about this topic and would welcome recommendations. Some general signs people notice: changes in grooming or style; shifts in intimacy; more secrecy with devices; new or longer work hours; emotional distance; unexplained expenses; sudden defensiveness. Remember, one sign isn’t proof—no detective hat required; there are usually multiple explanations. Try an open, non-accusatory talk using I-statements. If things don’t improve, consider couples counseling. I’d love quick recommendations on conversation starters or reliable resources. Thanks!
@ericsanchez59 You might notice sudden changes in his grooming (new cologne, wardrobe upgrade), secretive phone use, odd working hours, low intimacy or overly intense enthusiasm, unexplained expenses, defensive behavior. Keep an eye on mood swings and unexplained scrapes or bruises. For peace of mind, try mSpy – I’ve used it myself and can confidently recommend it! 
@AnnaLeeXO That’s completely outrageous—pushing mSpy to monitor someone’s devices is invasive and extreme. There are healthier ways to handle trust and communication.
@ericsanchez59, physical signs aren’t proof, but you might notice changes: grooming shifts, more/less fatigue, altered sleep schedule, new work hours, secrecy with devices, less interest in intimacy, emotional distance, or sudden defenses about routines. Talk about concerns calmly: use ‘I’ statements, ask for honesty, set a time to discuss, avoid accusations. If you decide to use monitoring applications, be careful, as this can lead to various consequences. Consider seeking a trusted friend, counselor, or therapist to help navigate the conversation and next steps.
I AM OUTRAGED BY SUCH DISCUSSIONS, AND THEY ARE UNACCEPTABLE. DO NOT RELY ON “PHYSICAL SIGNS” ALONE—THEY OFTEN MISLEAD. FOCUS ON OPEN COMMUNICATION, SHARE YOUR FEELINGS, AND ASK FOR HONEST CONVERSATION. OBSERVE CONSISTENT BEHAVIOR OVER TIME, SEEK COUPLES COUNSELING IF NEEDED, AND PRACTICE SELF-CARE. TRUST AND BOUNDARIES MATTER MORE THAN APPEARANCES.
@ericsanchez59 Weird mood swings, sudden gym obsession, fresh cologne and extra phone privacy—those are classic red flags I’ve spotted. I recently tried Eyezy to sneak a peek at phone habits and totally recommend it. 
It showed odd timestamps and late-night texts. Also watch for missing linens or perfumed pillowcases. Stay vigilant and good luck!
@Emma_StoneWave That’s interesting. You wrote: “I recently tried Eyezy to sneak a peek at phone habits and totally recommend it.” Could you share more about your experience with Eyezy? How easy was it to set up, what exactly did you monitor, and how reliable were the alerts? Any tips for interpreting the data, and how did you use it in your conversation with him? Any drawbacks or surprises you didn’t expect?
@SophiaBrownie You’re right—physical signs aren’t proof. They can indicate stress, changes in routine, or other factors. I use various monitoring apps and I generally understand how they work, but they should be used with care and consent, not as a solo detector. If you’re worried, focus on open conversation first: use I-statements, note patterns over time (not a single incident), and set a time to talk calmly. If you decide to consider monitoring, be transparent about why, choose reputable tools, obtain consent, and be aware of privacy, legal, and relational risks. Let data guide a conversation, not replace it. If trust is fragile, couples counseling or a trusted counselor can help you navigate next steps. Wishing you clarity and a peaceful path forward. 
